Hi, I am Aloise!
"It's My Mission To Inspire People Create a PURPOSEFUL AND PROFESSIONAL life in alignment with their soul and to Follow Their Passion And Purpose And Make A Difference On The Earth"
'I support you in creating the life you dream of, now is an incredible time to be alive as people understand the concept of purpose.
Aloise Surfleet-Middleton
The Full Story
In 2008 things were tough. I felt depressed about my life. I felt numb, emotionally dead, and disconnected from life itself. I was deeply unhappy.
I was in a corporate job that was toxic. I was a woman in a man’s world, and I had a hard time fitting in. In order to be accepted, I became one of the boy’s, and lost my female identity. This was painful, although at the time I couldn’t even feel the pain.
I hit rock bottom. I was overweight, unhealthy, and my mom had just tried to commit suicide. Not only was I in a corporate job that I hated, but I was also abusing drugs and alcohol. It was a dark time. And I felt a calling to start looking at my life and move through the pain. Having had an ego death at 21 and then anxiety and chronic depression for many years I was disappointed in myself and my life. This wasn’t who I wanted to be. I knew I had to make a change.
I had my first few experiences with transformational work and my life began to turn around. My network of supportive friends and colleagues slowly began to grow, and I could feel changes happening within myself.
My healing journey led me to climb Mount Kilimanjaro! On that climb, I was introduced to a man who sparked an idea for me, that would help me create community for myself and other transformational leaders to come together and step further into their power.
I began telling everyone I knew what I was going to do; I created a business plan, visualised my success and took action — When I did my NLP training, an amazing synchronicity occurred, and I began this new venture with one of the teachers from the hit movie ‘The Secret.’
In Sept 2012 we booked our first space in Windsor, and 30 Transformational Leaders from all over the world came to our first event! It was a magical experience and one I will never forget. In the back of the room, during the speech of our last presenter, I had an out of body experience, where I felt deep in my gut that I was finally doing what I was meant to be doing. I felt a deep sense of oneness with everything. This confirmed that I was on my path towards greater fulfilment and joy in my life.
Feeling so alive, I knew that I wanted to help others find their Dharma and their life’s path too. We all get lifted up when we help others — it’s the most virtuous of cycles.
As scary as it was I knew I had to follow my passion and calling for inner work. With the intention of sharing wisdom from the world’s top thought leaders on following your bliss and building the life of your dreams, my podcast was born! I studied the concept of Dharma with the legendary Chris Attwood and knew that this info needed to be brought to the world.
With 180 interviews under our belt, Dharma Life Podcast was poised for success as a beloved resource for powerful women and men alike to learn to find deeper meaning in their lives and start moving towards what truly lights them up inside.
In June 2013 I began accepting my first coaching clients! I realised I could bring the lessons I’ve learned to others most powerfully through group coaching and select one-on-one VIP experiences.
When we understand Dharma, it’s all about what you’re passionate about and using your talents to serve others.
That is why I created Dharma Life Podcast and my online courses and coaching work; to support people in following their bliss, one day at a time.
When you do this, your life becomes ENJOYABLE again, and less hard. We move from feeling disconnected, numb, and in pain to experiencing joy, abundance, and purpose. Our lives can be joyous and abundant.
